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Some people write about men's wellness. Fern is genuinely invested in it.

As GIDDI's content strategist and writer, and a studying sex therapist, Fern came to this work with a conviction most content doesn't have: that men's health has been chronically underserved, and that the silence around prostate wellness in particular has real costs. Not just cultural ones. Real ones. She writes to shrink that gap, and she takes it personally.

The perspective is hard-earned. Half Lebanese and heavily tattooed, Fern is a single mother of two who writes best well past midnight, fuelled by white monster and whatever the current heavy metal rotation is. She came to sex therapy through writing, or writing through sex therapy, at this point the two are too intertwined to separate. Either way, the work lands somewhere between rigorous and human, which is exactly where it needs to be.

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Libido Mismatch: How to Talk About Different Sex Drives Without the Blame

Libido mismatch is the quietest tension in long-term couples. Here's how to talk about different sex drives without blame, and actually reconnect.

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How Do I Talk to My Partner About Trying a Prostate Toy?

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Our Gay Sexting Guide: For Beginners to Seasoned Pros

Want to get more comfortable with gay sexting? GIDDI has a guide that everyone can use, from beginners to seasoned pros, to make your sexting even hotter.

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